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A little locked submissive shares his nightly journal and very personal account of feelings fears and excitement embracing the journey into submission.

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Day 6

The Day Bedtimes were set

I still absolutely love this control although I awaken to my body reaction, a certain tightening lol at about 4 am although after a short time I am still able to catch a few more hours sleep until the alarm I am used to being locked in chastity but not for someone and that certain special one that is now you Miss Ems!!!!! Tonight a task that and more control like bedtime really had an affect the minute you exercised more control over me sent shivers down my spine even more and the immediate reaction as I mentioned a complete turn on, and OMG does this hurt to type but so worth it to please you. I love the fact we have shared so much and you know everything about me that I could pass on so as to enable you to choose tonights outfit too I loved putting the schoolgirl outfit on and enhancing with stockings so I looked pretty for you and me too as I will not do any task by the minimal required as I am sure you realise. Bedtime in 37 minutes am clock watching!!! I hope you have had an amazing day and yours is as fulfilled as you make mine!!!! nipple clamps are on the way according to the shop purchased from!!! I look forward to my next task with huge smiles and trepidation of course. for information purposes I used to be a minimum of 5 times a day self pleasure when sat here alone and watching sites nd although locked there was always a temptation to achieve what you deny me of now and I LOVE that. Thankyou sooooo much xxxxxxxxxx 😛

Day 7

As I am sure this will please you Miss there was certainly a tightening in its cage as I read this. Yes Miss Ems the task shall be accomplished in your chosen clothing and a pair of boots selected to worship. I wish indeed they were yours and maybe one day I will be lucky enough. I will work out if pictures or a video or both are achievable may be restricted in file size to send an email but the task shall indeed be completed before my strict bedtime. And when in bed…Mmm in bed as are my instructions Miss Ems but always at your command hence my reply not sure if allowed. Smiles I trust I have pleased and the evidence is accessible via Dropbox if not I will of course send here. I hope you enjoy. Yes Miss Ems purple it is. OMG you have to know how much I wait on the message tone hoping it is you

Day 8

Miss Ems set tonight what one might think as an easy task if you had not experienced chastity before!!! Watch porn in dress down mode the kind I like well let me remind the fellow kinksters ( I write this so you can share Miss Ems if you so desire) this is NOT an easy task but it is, however it is harder than tease and denial it is harder than most tasks you will perform unless of course you are into different tortures. For 3 hours I watched the porn that most has an impact on me so very intense on ones locked anatomy!! and of course no release and with the device we have picked there of course is no chance of orgasm as so tight am thinking an even tighter and shorter one when Miss Ems acknowledges I have proved myself and a device is chosen to her choosing and this time her padlock not just a Mistress lock !  After 3 hours with no comfort or release you do think to yourself OMG I so want release and also darn it why do I have to watch more, and the temptation to take a cooling off break is there but know this will disappoint. One must always strive to keep Mistress happy and in my case with Miss Ems that is my foremost priority.  I said to Miss Ems recently that soon there would be leakage knowing how chastity works as so does Mistress and I can confirm I am at leakage stage!!!! A minimum of another 25 days is in store for this locked one who know what that may bring but know the leakage will increase!!!! Thank you Miss Ems for tonight’s task and now a more private message as I thought you may wish to share my experience !!! OMG your experience shows through!!! I cannot again thank you enough for your consideration to choose me out of so many I am sure vie for your attention!!!! xxxx Task is complete and journal as above I hope all to your satisfaction, still bound and gagged to my office chair before a quick shower before allocated bedtime I cannot thank you enough for completing my world!!! xxxx

Day 9

Praise indeed today from Miss Ems, the right colour choice of underwear for my morning worship which has now become very second nature and is on my mind from the time I awaken to my enforced bedtime and routine. Miss Ems has my thoughts and background thoughts when working and going about my everyday work and schedule and I hope for more scheduling, Also praise for the depths of my journal descriptions of the tasks and that I am moulding nicely which leaves a warm tingly glow thoughout my being and of the course the desire to do more to please and of course to be the best sub ever which is Miss Ems intention. Also the excitement of knowing that there will more teasing and a lot more denial  and now I have reached that stage of frustration that even the mention of more makes me hard in my chastity which is how chastity works the more frustrated you are the more the simpler things can have the desired affect so winding a chastised sub up becomes even easier for the Mistress.todays task was but a simple one but something all good male subs should remember when in the company of a friend and especially a female friend ones focus should entirely be on them not outside media or social networking and Miss Ems is gracious enough to allow that with this particular friend, I am sure Mistress will be much more demanding of my attention to her when among everyday other women that she will require her attentions always take priority to remind me of my place to her. I have notice little lockedone is how Miss refers to me which I thin is a much improved version of locked is how I chose to be addressed as was Miss Ems want and would like my chosen name to be amended to little locked one if Miss Ems sees fit. I ordered a pair of nipple clamps as Miss Ems required and am pleased to announce the should arrive tomorrow. Similarly it being friday with no work on saturday and little plans for that day as it stands I would like to inform Miss Ems that it looks like will be at her complete disposal for most of saturday as I only need to popout for a few short errands.  But sunday I am chauffeur to my parents having to take them to port to sail and have to be with them by 12 pm so will  driving most of the day until about 3 when they depart then along drive home but can be available at any time after 3 even if I need to stop and answer. I very much look forward to every new day and challenge and excitedly await for 11 my allotted bedtime to arrive to be forced to bed xxxxx

Day 10

My task to provide an almost IMBD of porn in certain categories was soooooo much fun as I have my own preferneces that I think mirror my Mistress and having sent for review I am confident xxx

and every task now nearly 10 days in to my full time chastity certainly promotes a reaction I have been tight before but none so tight as now!!! and hope for this to continue xxx

In sumation OMG I want for more so much and Miss Ems constantly pushing my boundaries and me being on demand 24/7 will indeed complete me xxxx I cannot wait for her next ask xxxx

To be continued…..

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Yes Miss Ems – Diaries of Chastity

Explore the journey into submission of a little locked chastity lover

Locked chastity in pink pants

Of course before this I believe should be an intro of how all of this began and how I am now in the fortunate position to call Miss Ems my Mistress.

 

I had first contacted in July a random chance connection on Twitter yet maybe Miss Ems saw something in me that was rare and worth a gamble in finding a submissive such as me and I was asked to check out the website and business she now runs Kinkycamdom, even though I had messaged before ( not in the twitter history asking her to choose a Mistress lock which Miss Ems did not but did comment on one of my devices which I donned and wore before Miss Ems and I spoke again and was asked to check out the site she ran.

I have always taken reasonable tasks seriously with Mistresses and with Miss Ems there seemed so much more than just a random request as nothing sexual involved no Fin Domme just a simple ask to check out the website and report back on my findings. This pleased Miss Ems without boring for the detail and the question was asked how many days am I locked currently or do I intend to be and as this was self imposed chastity I informed Miss Ems of this and Mistress imposed a 30 day lock down upon me and after reviewing devices I had and locks to choose from I was initially tasked into my pepperpot chastity with a chosen lock for 30 days and I would be messaged in the morning of August the 8th of how Mistress wanted to proceed.

“Your daily task before work 1. Kneel and chat ‘I submit to Miss Ems’ 20 times. 2. Choose the sexiest underwear remember my favourite colour is red or black the friller the better. 3. Dm a good morning picture to Miss Ems before heading to work. This is a daily task whilst I own your cock!”

 

Such has been my daily routine since then. To help us both as this type of relationship is much deeper than vanilla lifestyle so my first ever task was to provide all the information I could about what I own clothing and cb wise as well as a full breakdown of my kink likes and dislikes and previous experiences.

Mistress tasked me on that evening of the 9th a simple yet immediate designate of power exchange and my submission to Miss Ems in its entirety.

 

Day 1

I first met Miss Ems on a random twitter feed and we joked about various things and posts and I informed her of my love for chastity and she chose a device but made it clear that she wasnt my Mistress ( shortened version) and it was just a choice of device. Months on I am so amazingly proud to announce this wonderful ladtyhas become my Mistress and how this came about is purely by luck and a shared interest in the lifestyle xx

I do believe with her experience in the lifestyle and mine in my desires and wants over the years and my ultimate fantasy this lady has been presented to me for a reason and having now accepted me as her submissive a long journey is ahead of us xxx

after much exchange to share knowledge to tailor her Dominant side to mine submissive our journey has begun and as the submissive in this I cannot emphasize how proud and honoured I am to be considered by one so professional as Miss Ems!!! I want to shout from the rooftops of my acceptance and show her to be the proud sumissive that I hope she wants… time will tell. I can only be me and hopefully that will be enough for her. Looking forward to exploring new boundaries with an experienced Dominant and my owner Miss Ems xxx

how does that work, and spoken from the heart xxxxxxxxx

Day 2

As I sit here bound to my chair and gagged as is my Mistress want to write my journal I have come to realise although you want to share everything to make it as easy as you can for your Dominant to know everything it is easy to forget some simple things that your Domme needs to know, up and coming plans in the vanilla world as well as plans in everyday life which you take as the norm!!! As a submissive your life is not about you it is about how you can make Mistresses life better!!! Do not forget the simple everyday things you do that may have an affect on your total submission!! Today I made the error of messaging Mistress and retweeting whilst with a long term friend who deserved my full attention and was reminded of this and although my punishment light as I am new to Mistress and her new to me I gained much insight from this error. I thought i was akin to this lifestyle and knew much but this one episode has taught me anew to rethink. I thank Miss Ems for her education on this and will strive not to disappoint again xxx

Day 3

So bound to the chair and gagged day 3 of my journal. Miss Ems had me in manly knickers today and in truth I forgot I was wearing them until every time I had a bathroom break I was reminded of the fact and am of course loving the constant chastity I am in, for at least a month in her control not mine own yet the disappointment at the chosen underwear was there each time i saw and in my morning picture of worship it just wasn’t the same and I was aware that Miss Ems could not see her padlock to her cock which I felt guilty for!!! throughout the day although very busy with my own routine I had that thought running through my head. My journey time today with traffic was bad and I informed Miss Ems I would probably be home late and wondered if I would have any more punishment due to not being home at a set time as this I have mentioned in the past but I this time was fortunate that there was no retribution. when home however Miss Ems desire was to up my frustration at being in chastity which I love choosing porn which stimulates me and had to choose a favorite which was extremely difficult but settled on one and until my journal have been tasked with constant stimulation by watching the porn on my knees. OMG I love this frustration and denial and Miss Ems is aware that this is my biggest fantasy from the video and insights shared. I end each day thinking how lucky I am to have been chosen by this exquisite lady with extensive experience of the lifestyle and her total ownership of me. This weekend will be filled with my pre-booked diary as well as my birthday and Miss Ems has already sewn the seed of how she will constantly remind me of my position which enthralls me all the more especially as this weekend I will be in a latex catsuit and heels in public at a comic con event so in public in a fetish love normally reserved for private. I am so grateful for being able to live my fantasy of full time chastity and service and still have the tingles running through my spine at every bleep on my phone that could potentially be a message from my Mistress and when it is not Miss Ems I do feel a sense of disappointment each time it isn’t her. I cant wait for tomorrow !!!!!! Thankyou Miss Ems xxxxx

Day 4

Gosh is it only day 4 I feel more connected with you Miss Ems than that, this is perhaps due to what I have shared and how deep I have gone into this so quick as I have utmost trust in you and feel a connection as well of course as much it constantly still sends this shiver down my back knowing I belong to you, I am incredibly pleased to have received the praise for my considerate thinking this morning not sending he pictures first sent above even though I believe the correct decorum to behave it is lovely to have that recognised thank you Miss Ems. I was I admit nervous today that I would fit in my catsuit locked as is an incredibly tight fit and squishing can cause discomfort with trapped blood in the scrotum not only if I could get into the suit in that area, however fitting went without a hitch and only minor was the swelling this evening when removed that a few twists and turns soon relieved which is Very pleasing now knowing I could do again if required. My task was to get as many pictures of me as I could and I have achieved 7 although I believe to be more and I hope you approve, there may be more but not by my camera so I did not count them as part of my task as until i see the confirmation of course I cannot declare, I hope Miss Ems finds this satisfactory as well as the aforementioned pictures. I also when asking for someone to take a picture on my phone for me did announce it was part of my task and of course the only people who got that were the hosts as they are also into the BDSM lifestyle albeit I know not how much. and now I sit herehinking what an amazing day and how lucky I am to have Miss Ems and the friends I have, feeling somewhat complete with life. A nice way to eer my 48th Birthday year tomorrow. Xxxxxxxx

Day 5

Today I felt the pressure of balance of wanting to be available to Miss Ems and the balance of a close family as today was my Birthday and a special day for me and my folks, I shared todays experience and the desire for Miss Ems to be a part of that real time would be the ultimate prize for me a real time Mistress that is in my everyday life!!!! upon return home there was a missing item in my bondage gear in the form of nipple clamps which I have now corrected by ordering as my task required them and I felt very guilty at not having and ordered immediately as Miss Ems required me to have. I am also keen to have a more immediate way of communicating with Miss Ems rather than here and I expressed that and Miss Ems advised that would come in time which as her submissive I cannot wait for that!!!! OMG I have found the one I think!!! xxxx

I am so lucky!!! Jumping ahead I know Miss Ems has accepted my thirty days initial lock up in a Mistress Padlock the number chosen by her but as we spoke earlier about future I would love to choose a new device with you and receive your lock without keys sooo much , I know this is in the future but know I am keen for this to happen xxxx

To be continued……..

 

 

Stripped Back Raw to the Core – Brenda Adiyiah

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Welcome to our next helping of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core. Today we have the pleasure of stripping back the beautiful and inspiring founder of Burn the Night & IgniteXXXNews

Brenda Adiyiah

Brenda Adiyiah in white chiffon

1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

I launched my own business early this year, under the brand name Burn the Night. I have worked on many other projects previously under various pseudonyms, but this is the first lifestyle brand / creative services platform I have created. So far, it’s received great feedback from adult industry members as well as the general public, along with some social engagement from a few prominent figures in music and fashion. It has a lot of potential, so I’m really excited about my new solo venture.

2: Where would you go in a time travel machine?

That’s difficult as there are several prominent moments in history I would love to have seen first hand and for different reasons. I would like to have the seen the earliest forming of human civilisation, where and how exactly our ancestry began. I’d love to have seen Ancient Egypt when it’s major cities, monuments, art and artefacts were brand new.

 

When I think about music, which is a big part of my life, I can’t imagine what it would be like to have seen Jimi Hendrix playing in the flesh, playing live in small London bar or watching Bob Marley perform to a crowd at an open air gig / festival. That would be something else!

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

I’ve done quite a few things that quite a lot of people would think were insane. When I use to model, I’d frequently jump on trains and planes and travel alone to destinations to shoot with photographers I didn’t really know. When it came to all the ‘stranger danger’ don’t dos I pretty much did them all. I was always a risk taker, even as a teenager. I just wanted to get out there, explore different places and meet different kinds of people. I’ve experimented in many different ways in various aspects of my life. I feel like that’s given me a much broader prospective and understanding of what’s truly important. Plus I’ve always been free-spirited, so I feel very fortunate to have crafted a life that doesn’t feel limiting, I work how I wish to, where and with whom I wish to and live where I want to be. It did not come easily by any means, it took a lot of time and effort but it was definitely worth it.

4: What is your earliest memory?

My earliest memory is a very brief one. As a baby, I remember being in my mums arms in our first home, which was a high rise in South East London. I was looking out of the window and watching cars pass along the road, behind the park. Of course, I wouldn’t have known what they were at the time, I just remembered the scene.

5: What was your most intense dream?

It’s hard to pinpoint one in particular as I often have intense dreams, it’s usually my nightmares that are the most intense and have left a much stronger / longer-lasting impression. When I was around 15 years old, I use to dream a lot about being chased and killed by a hooded assailant, but I never saw who it was. I’d wake up before they actually killed me. I use to wake up with a jolt every time until one day I stopped having those dreams.

Brenda Adiyiah with jacket6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

I’d give them a small mirror that only showed who they were on the inside, or what they had become. If people saw their true reflection staring back at them, I think it would inspire a lot more people to believe in themselves and their abilities. As a result, it would lead to people achieving what they have only dreamt about. I also think it would help ground those who have lost sight of whats actually important, if they could actually see what they are becoming it might be enough of a shock to help them re-evaluate and take positive steps towards becoming more aligned with their true self and not what their ego, peer or societal pressure has dictated.

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

I didn’t actually go out so much that summer as I was babysitting my sisters mostly, but I recall getting very drunk on neat vodka on one of the few days I actually got out of the house. Needless to say I’ve had many bad hangovers over the years thanks to vodka and yet it is still one of the few alcoholic drinks I can actually somewhat stomach!

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Hmm… to be honest I don’t really mind doing housework. I guess taking out the trash due to the smell and sometimes, lack of room in the outdoor bins.

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

There’s a big list of places I plan to visit over the course of my life span. I really want to explore hot and exotic destinations like Aruba, Barbados, Madagascar, Zanzibar, the Maldives, Peru etc. The next few countries I’m likely to visit are Bali, Thailand, Cambodia, Japan and probably Canada or New Zealand.

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

I wanted to be several things over the years; a ninja (not even joking!), a nurse, an actress, a dancer and finally a psychiatrist. I actually did go on to study dance and psychology but changed course after some years.

11:What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

Just the one? That’s impossible! To pick one, I’ve always loved Safe From Harm  by Massive Attack, as I feel like it really summed up my feelings about my past, trying to get away from seemingly impossible situations and leaving toxic people and environments to go on in pursuit of a better, more fulfilling life as well as developing as a person, learning from past traumas and mistakes I had made and as well as learning more about how the world works and how rapidly it is changing.

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

Pretty much everything that comes from Björk. I find her incredibly inspiring in terms of the melodies of her songs, the lyrical content, her singing style as well as her fashion styling and music videos. She’s very talented and is a creative by nature. I find people who push the limit of their creativity and that continue to experiment with their chosen art form to be inspiring. I suppose it’s another reason why I was always drawn to jazz music as a child. My dad use to listen to and play a lot of jazz, as he played guitar, so I found the intricate drum patterns, expressive brass, bass, guitar and overall soulful vibes really fascinating.

13:What was your first car and did you name it?

I don’t drive so maybe just skip this one? 

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

It would have to be my boyfriend; we are very similar in a lot of ways and yet different in others. Where we differ is where we really benefit from being around one another. Through his support and understanding I’ve been able to have the space and time to start to truly learn about what I want from life and to work on my personal development. He came at a time where I was pretty much losing faith in humanity, he showed me that there were still people in the world that use free-thought, that are compassionate and isn’t lost to their own selfishness and ego. If it wasn’t for that, I don’t think Burn the Night or myself as an individual would have the same focus that it does i.e. on helping all see their true worth and potential, encouraging others to be bold, creative and free-thinking.

Brenda Adiyiah in black dress15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

She’s a crazy llama lady, who loves white wine, chocolate and anime.

16:What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

Never accept anything less than what you truly deserve, and that means realigning your self perception.

17: What is your favourite item of clothing?

Probably my long, drape Killstar jumper. I also have some great summer wear and stunning lingerie from various brands.

 

18:What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

A bowl of gluten-free, chocolate Zaps cereal, not because I’m a hipster but because I have a wheat allergy.

19:Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

Switzerland. Luckily, I was only there for a few days for a photoshoot back in 2010. I found it to be intolerant and only suited to those who happen to be white and wealthy. I really didn’t enjoy it, it was dull and I found that a lot of the residents were ultra conservative, close-minded and racially prejudiced.

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

If I could, I’d eradicate greed and the warped sense of entitlement. If you took those two factors away, you’d have a great basis to start making some real positive changes in the world. Whilst greed continues to engulf everything, there can never be equality.

Brenda and her team offer Digital Marketing, Project Management, PR, Journalism, Digital Retouching and more please visit her site BurntheNight or follow @iBurntheNight and @IgniteXXXNews over on Twitter.

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Stripped Back Raw to the Core – Kinky Bunny

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Welcome to our next helping of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core. Today we finally pin down the one and only Jive Dave our very own

Kinky Bunny

The love of kink and the lifestyle is what brings the Kinkycamdom Community together, however we want to be a little different and go deeper, strip you back raw to the core. Being kinky is only one aspect of who you are there is so much more to explore. Each month a deeper set of 20 questions will be asked to those within the Adult industry that wish to take part and will aim to strip them Raw to the Core.

The only rule to these questions is you have to be honest and answer in as much detail as you can.  Are you brave enough?

Jive Dave – Kinky Bunny, Head of Recruitment for Kinkycamdom

kinky bunny with strap-on

 

1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

Mmmm at first I thought this was going to be a really hard one then after 17 seconds I thought fuck it I am going to tell the truth (let’s hope I don’t get sacked for this) but it’s obvious really. When I nailed Daddies Secretary after him telling me not to, one afternoon, well actually I have done it quite a few times if I’m honest but don’t tell anyone. He still gives me the evils every time he walks past me oopps, and he only knows about the first time!

 

2: Where would you go in a time travel machine?

Well, being a big fan of the Flintstones I would love to go back in time for tea with Fred and Thelma and their pet Dinosaur.  Don’t you think Bam Bam is ever so cute!

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

See question one!!!!!!

kinky bunny using strap-on

 

4: What is your earliest memory?

Being stuck in that shop window in Soho, London, before Daddy rescued me.

kinky bunny in shop window

 

5: What was your most intense dream?

Surrounded in a field full of juicy fresh carrotts

6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

I would give them a carrot you can do so much more with them than just eat the bastards 🙂

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

Don’t be silly I didn’t go to school I’m a Kinky fucking Bunny!!!

bunny with shopping trolly

 

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Shopping!!

 

 

 

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

I would love one of those world cruises I think.

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

Obviously not a Kinky Bunny! I wanted to be normal just like everyone else. Always gets me hard thinking about that Pinocchio fella 🙂

11: What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

Because of my passion for bikes it has to be Lana Del Rey – Ride and the extended version because it sort of describes me

“I am Fucking Crazy, but I am FREE”  Lana Del Rey – Ride

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

Dua Lipa – Be The One because she is so fucking tasty and a great tune, and I tell you what next time I’m on tour she is going to have to get it 🙂 This Bunny has got a fetish for that girl she rocks!

 

bunny doing a wheely on motorbike

13: What was your first car and did you name it?

I stick to two wheels!! Well maybe just the one but we won’t mention that. Her name is Sally.

 

 

 

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

It has to be Daddy because he is Strong, wise, and everything in between and I love him . Even though he is a tight fucker lol.

15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

This Kinky Bunny rocks da house

16: What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

Eat more carrots because masturbation can make you go blind 🙂

17: What is your favourite item of clothing?

That’s easy my strap-on

18: What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

Two Weetabix with just a sprinkle of sugar as I am on a diet, with semi skimmed milk I’ve got to watch the figure.

19: Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

China. Everywhere I went they kept saying I would be nice with Hosin or Plum sauce. I shit myself, think they had me confused with a duck!!

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

People stop killing other people in the name of so called religion because at the end of the day we are all equal. And hey I am just a fucking bunny!!

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Stripped Back Raw to the Core – Mistress Marisa

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Welcome to our next helping of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core. Today we are stepping into the deep depths of The Mind Goddess

Mistress Marisa

The love of kink and the lifestyle is what brings the Kinkycamdom Community together, however we want to be a little different and go deeper, strip you back raw to the core. Being kinky is only one aspect of who you are there is so much more to explore. Each month a deeper set of 20 questions will be asked to those within the Adult industry that wish to take part and will aim to strip them Raw to the Core.

The only rule to these questions is you have to be honest and answer in as much detail as you can.  Are you brave enough?

Mistress Marisa – Pro-Domme and Erotic Hypnotist

Mistress Marisa holding a crystal ball1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

Well I guess I have done many things that I am proud of. From getting my degree in psychology to many more simple things.  The most rewarding of all was rescuing my fur kid Sasha 🙂

2: Where would you go in a time travel machine?

Straight into Hawaii lay on the beach for a few weeks getting pampered.

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

Dismantling the pipe work under my sink. Then throwing water into the sink when there were no fricking pipes connected, this happened just yesterday LMAO

 

4: What is your earliest memory?

My earliest memory would be where I was in my cot with a high temperature due to tonsillitis. My mom brings the doctor in who put a thermometer in my mouth. I bite into it and ended up, upside down held by my ankles while he slapped my back. Bet he wouldn’t try that now ?

5: What was your most intense dream?

My most intense dream would have been a few years ago when I was visited by Damon from the vampire diaries. Wow! a super sexy hot dream. I was very annoyed when I woke up. I’ve tried several time to visit that dream again but damn it doesn’t happen lol. ?

6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

I am stuck with this one

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

The craziest thing I did my last day of leaving school was to get drunk. Ugh I was sick for days.

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Ironing I fucking hate it!

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

I would love to visit the Naica cave Chihuahua in Mexico. I have a huge passion for huge crystals. I best not wear my catsuit if I ever visit there, its extremely hot!

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

I wanted to be an artist inspired by many wonderful artists. I guess I have become a different artist more of a kinky one lol. I still love painting though!

11: What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

Enigma for their uniqueness and style. Also classical music not all but some. Makes fantastic dungeon background music especially when in session. 🙂

Enigma – The principles of lust

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

My favourite music would be from Enigma all of their songs and some of their videos. Hauntingly ambient I just adore them. Also Areosmith Kings of Leon and many other rock bands.

13: What was your first car and did you name it?

My first car was a Mazda MX5 and I named him Harry 🙂

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

Wow I really do have many. However two of my favs would be Dr Richard Bandler, Dr Wayne Dyer. I love the way they think!

15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

My closest friends would say that I am honest kind helpful and inspiring.

16: What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

I would advise my younger self to be mindful of who I choose as friends. Real friends are decent kind and wish you well. The rats in the world only want to hurt you because they have no life of their own.

17: What is your favourite item of clothing?

My favourite clothing depends on where I am. Dungeon clothing has to be latex, pvc and all things shiny 🙂 Going out to restaurants something sexy but classy. Hanging out at home, my onesy well I have several. I especially like my rabbit onesy. Had to cut the tail off though didn’t feel right sitting on the tail ? LMAO.

18: What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

Fruit salad with Greek yogurt Mmmm yummy 🙂

19: Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

I dont know if I have ever visited anywhere that I wouldn’t go back again.

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

End the wars, they solve no purpose at all.

 

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Stripped Back Raw to the Core – locked titeforyou

Welcome to our next helping of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core. Today we are stepping into the locked latex clad world of

locked titeforyou

The love of kink and the lifestyle is what brings the Kinkycamdom Community together, however we want to be a little different and go deeper, strip you back raw to the core. Being kinky is only one aspect of who you are there is so much more to explore. Each month a deeper set of 20 questions will be asked to those within the Adult industry that wish to take part and will aim to strip them Raw to the Core.

The only rule to these questions is you have to be honest and answer in as much detail as you can.  Are you brave enough?

Locked titeforyou – Latex and chastity lover

Horny red devil in latex

1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

I love what I do for a living. Working in recruitment I make people happy by finding them new positions

2: Where would you go in a time travel machine?

Like many I am sure watch the pyramids being built

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

So many lol. Sat drinking magic mushroom tea on the tyne bridge feet dangling

4: What is your earliest memory?

I have exzema and as a young child of 3 having to be in cream and bandages

5: What was your most intense dream?

Don’t really dream but as a youngster being stuck in toy cars and teleporting from one to another trying to escape Mr punch and the rest of the punch and Judy puppets

6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

Hmm  tough one. A diamond to eliminate poverty

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

Tried jumping a car in my roller skates didn’t end well lol

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Sock pairing

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

Hiroshima currently as working through my bucket list

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

Be a forensic scientist

11: What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

Teenage wedding from pulp fiction. The girl I went out with when the movie was out. Good times

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

Varies depending on mood

13: What was your first car and did you name it?

A triumph acclaim and all my cars are called Christine

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

My mom. What she went through over the years

15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

Loyal and willing to do anything to help

16: What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

Stay strong everything happens for a reason

17: What is your favourite item of clothing?

Latex catsuit

18: What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

Eggs and toast

19: Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

Haven’t got one

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

Equality

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Stripped Back Raw to the Core – Dandelion

Welcome to our next helping of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core. Today we are stepping into the Sissy world with

Dandelion

The love of kink and the lifestyle is what brings the Kinkycamdom Community together, however we want to be a little different and go deeper, strip you back raw to the core. Being kinky is only one aspect of who you are there is so much more to explore. Each month a deeper set of 20 questions will be asked to those within the Adult industry that wish to take part and will aim to strip them Raw to the Core.

The only rule to these questions is you have to be honest and answer in as much detail as you can.  Are you brave enough?

Dandelion – CD Sissy

1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

Having Miss Ems be my guiding light

My job. I have achieved so much in a short space of time.

Finally accepting who I am. I know I’ll never be macho male and accept that I’ll always be a sissy.

2:  Where would you go in a time travel machine?

Ooooh a TARDIS…. the industrial revolution to see how it all started and how the infrastructure we have as a country developed. So much to see and do.

Can I also fight a few daleks ?

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

Either go to Ibiza for a 18-30 holiday or walk into Debenhams for a makeover. Scary!

4: What is your earliest memory?

Probably spending my weekend travelling around Europe

5: What was your most intense dream?

Good question. Not too sure. Get lots of dreams about being em femme… which often lead me to wake up.

6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

A Pen. So we can all communicate with each other old school. The PEN IS mightier than the sword.

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

Not get a job between school and college.

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Cleaning unless I was provided with maids outfit.

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

Australia. I went and thoroughly enjoyed it. I’d gladly go again. Found the people lovely and understanding.

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

Always wanted to embrace my feminine side.

11: What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

Don’t look back in anger Oasis.

There’s no point looking backwards. We have to look to the future and not dwell on the past. Life’s too short for regrets.

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

Richard Branson losing my virginity.

As an adult I admired him from afar, someone who has achieved so much in life.

13: What was your first car and did you name it?

Never owned a car

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

Family. Enough said.

15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

Friendly, helpful and courteous. Dodgy sense of humour and well mannered.

16: What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

Be yourself. You’ll only regret not doing it .

17: What is your favourite item of clothing?

My leggings. Embrace my femininity.

18: What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

Two bananas

19: Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

Mmmmm. Good question. Don’t think I ever had that thought.

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

People’s opinion and get rid of bigotry.

 

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Stripped Back Raw to the Core – Paul Co-Founder

 

 

Welcome to our first edition of Stripped Back – Raw to the Core What better place to start than one of the Co-Founders of Kinkycamdom

Paul

The love of kink and the lifestyle is what brings the Kinkycamdom Community together, however we want to be a little different and go deeper, strip you back raw to the core. Being kinky is only one aspect of who you are there is so much more to explore. Each month a deeper set of 20 questions will be asked to those within the Adult industry that wish to take part and will aim to strip them Raw to the Core.

The only rule to these questions is you have to be honest and answer in as much detail as you can.  Are you brave enough?

Paul: Co-Founder of Kinkycamdom

1: What is something you have done that you are really proud of?

OK you asked for the truth so you will get the truth, I actually asked around the office for this one as I struggled if I am honest, the answer was and I have to agree with this I have stopped Drink Driving over many many years now. It was getting expensive smashing cars up especially the last one, my little virgin BMW was flying in the air at over 100 miles an hr after doing the wall of death around a corner before landing upside down.  It finally hit me that I could of killed someone, a car coming in the other direction would not have stood a chance.  I had always had a few drinks and happily drove home for years. My last accident made me realise life is too short and what I was doing was really dangerous to others, nobody close to me thought I would stop. I proved them wrong which is why I am proud of this moment, I kicked a bad habit. and have never done it since

 

2: Where would you go in a time travel machine?

This one is easy, straight back to the future with Michael J Fox into the shop to buy a sports fixture results book, get back and the world and I will rinse the bookies Happy Days 🙂

3: What is the craziest thing you have ever done?

Fuck How long have you got, here is one of many!!

Ahhh have you ever seen the film Twin Town as obviously I grew up in Wales. A normal night would start with 1 and a half Acid Tabs each, 200 magic mushrooms washed down with Southern Comfort. We would proceed to break into the local fair, and slide down the Astroglide on milk floats, totally wasted. Somewhere out of the blue someone shouted ‘Let’s nick a boat and go to France’ bare in mind we are on the coast off North fucking Wales (hey it was good Acid) It was only when we were all waist deep in the Harbour trying to get to this big boat, my best friend shouted ‘Hey Paul you can’t fucking swim!!’ Hence you can imagine on that night we didn’t make it to France!

4: What is your earliest memory?

Being constantly beaten by my Step Dad, until I come of age to wrap his golf clubs around his head. Then it stopped.

5: What was your most intense dream?

This one is quiet crazy, I am shooting Aliens but I am winning so hopefully that is a good thing, hopefully save all us Eathlings 🙂

6: You can give one object (the same object) to everyone in the world, what is it and why?

This one is simple Everyone is getting a Spliff and hopefully it will chill you all out!

7: What is the stupidest thing that you did during the summer after leaving school?

Fuck now where do I start with this one

I wasn’t made welcome in School like normal people, I had a choice basically it was Borstal or go to work, so at 15 I went to work, there was no summer.

8: What is your least favourite chore?

Christ that has got to be the recycling. Not enough boxes and too many wine bottles and beer cans.

9: If you could go anywhere in the world where would you go?

I have been lucky enough to explore every area that I wanted to go.

10: What did you want to be when you grew up?

That is obvious I am going to say what most say an Astronaut ha ha but if I am very honest I don’t want to grow up and probably never will!

11:What is your favourite song/video that you always look back and reflect on and why?

This has took me a while as I am a massive music head and I could list endless songs that I reflect on from years gone by and present day.

One that takes me back to my youth and mixed memories has to be Billy Idol – Eyes Without A Face

12: What is your favourite song/video/ book that inspires you and why?

OK this one is quiet simple it is the song Selena Gomez – Good for you

I love this, a nice summer tune and I can see the boat I have my heart set on going out from harbour on it’s side propulsion systems with this blasting from it Bose sound system.

13:What was your first car and did you name it?

I had a yellow Datson Cherry it lasted two days, I married it up with a tree. It did not have chance to be named.

14: Who is the most influential person in your life and why?

This person obviously has to be my Nan God Bless her soul. The most softest and yet hardest person I have ever known. She had to be married to my Grandad that was ex original Special Forces (SAS) and to this day I still wear her wedding ring around my neck.

15: If your closest friend was asked to describe you what would they say?

This is their version truthfully – He is one crazy bastard, completely off his head, funny, with a great intellect and creative mind, a beautiful but hard soul with extreme fire in his belly, protective to the max and I can safely say utterly mental but adorable.

16:What encouraging advice would you give you 17 year old self?

DON’T  DO IT !

17:What is your favourite item of clothing?

My Rayban’s

18:What did you eat for breakfast this morning?

Four cups of tea and just one Spliff 😉

19:Name a place you would never want to visit again and why?

Kavos in Corfu – It is a dirty shit hole and fuck me the balloons just don’t work I tried them all, I even tried off the bottle it didn’t touch the sides, and the watered down Bacardi in the bars did not impress either.  The quad bikes are shit. Stick to Ibiza guys 🙂

20: If you could fix one problem with the world what would it be?

I would legalise marijuana. worldwide.

 

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A Kinky Pond

Vibrant Pond

 

What has a pond possibly got to do with a kinky webcam site you might ask well surprisingly quite a lot.

We started the crazy journey into the cam industry with Kinkycamdom a little under 6 months ago. At the start we were asked a question regarding the future of Kinkycamdom or Kinky, as I call it, We were asked where we saw Kinky in the future, what our plans were, where did we see this little adventure taking us?  As I was sat here this morning, coffee in hand looking out onto the garden, and over our beautiful pond, I found myself reflecting on the first 6 months of the business, and the question returned into my sleepy head (that was far from caffeinated sufficiently at this point I might add!) and my focus turned to our pond.

Our Pond

Our pond like all other garden ponds started as a little idea. A vision in our mind to enhance the garden and attract different variations of wildlife. We knew where we wanted to locate the pond, had an idea of size and the sort of plants and flowers we would add to begin the process and the rest we would let nature takes it’s course. I remember looking at the pond when we had finished knowing that it would take years to grow and flourish into all of its beauty that I see today. The pond is completely different to when we started, It grows more beautiful and rich with wildlife each year. The birds have been kind enough to drop seeds on passing, we now have a wide variation of plant life that we did not introduce ourselves. The small water lillies we first planted now cover a large area, the flowers and bushes have spread and now give cover to all sides of the water. The fish have multiplied and grown to fill the water with an abundance of colour. The striking difference this year is the reeds that have appeared.  One has turned into four and they stand strikingly tall and dominant in the corner of the pond.  The pond has a life of it’s own and continues to grow and change year on year.

But what has that got to do with Kinkycamdom?

Kinkycamdom was brought about in the same way as our garden pond, we had a little idea, well actually we had a rather big idea, which Paul has aptly named Project X, and Kinky is somewhat a byproduct from the original idea, that is being worked on behind the scenes. Keep watching but for now back to Kinky.

Very much like the pond we had the framework in our minds of where to begin. We wanted a cam site that would cater for all areas of webcam models no discrimination, females, males, trans and BDSM/Fetish to start and add categories as we grew. We also wanted a cam site that would incorporate all of the best parts of other cam sites, to cater for a wider customer base and give the models freedom to choose how to run their rooms. Free chat and live shows for tips. Private chats and shows for set amounts per minute, group shows, the option to transmit live video or chat without video.  Beyond this point we would let nature take it’s course and see where the journey would take us.

The framework was in place, and much like the pond, Kinky was born. With a handful of models that dotted each main category, we were ready to begin. We stood back and looked at that which we had created, very much like we stood looking at the pond. We knew that although it would take many years to establish, lot’s of hard work and an element of going with the flow, it would eventually take on a life of it’s own and just six months in we have grown considerably, some areas of which like the birds dropping seeds were not planned.

What has changed?

We now have an abundance of models, all of different kinky varieties, all offering their own unique shows and experiences. New categories have been added to allow our customers to navigate with ease, and find the models that suit their preference. We see new customers registering everyday, and old customers returning to visit their favourite models. The cams have come to life.

The biggest changes that we have seen are with that which encases the cams, the outside of our pond so to speak. Kinkycamdom as a brand has grown. We were given the opportunity to incorporate our Kinky ToyStore which not only brings new customers, but with our own wishlist being added shortly, it will also give the models an extra bonus. We have also seen the addition of Kinky Casuals, our alternative dating site, which offers members the chance to chat and meet like minded kinksters worldwide. Neither of these aspects were planned, just like the tall dominant reeds that are now stood proudly in the corner of our pond.

Where will we go from here?

This brings me back to the question we were asked when we began “Where do you see Kinky in the future?”  This can now be answered with some ease.

We have no idea where the wind will blow us, but we can tell you this, that just like the pond Kinkycamdom will continue to grow, flourish and change with time and we hope will be a whole kinky community full of beautiful diversity. Our very own ‘Kinky Pond’

Keep it Kinky

Much Love

Miss Ems

 

 

Guest Blog – All tied up – Self Bondage

 We are very excited here at Kinkycamdom to introduce our very good friend

More Than whips and Chains

with his first Guest Blog to coincide with our Kink of the Day on Self Bondage.

selfbondage - latex

All tied up – self bondage

Paradoxical elements flow through the heart of BDSM.  Choosing limits when giving up control is an obvious example of this.  The submissive thrives on the idea of total surrender but will do so on their own terms.

For many they are unable, for whatever reason, to find someone to live out their inclinations in the real world.  Some will consume kink virtually through videos, online chat and other digital means.  Others may satisfy their kink on their own, whether it be dressing up, exercising self instructed control or indulging whatever other predilections they have.

For bondage aficionados, the idea of playing alone leaves more questions than answers.  The thrill of being bound is the loss of control.  The loss of control is as a result of another restraining the sub in such a way that they are unable to free themselves.  The act of self bondage can give the illusion of that lack of control, but to truly restrain oneself to the point of total restriction comes the reality that another is needed to ensure eventual freedom.

I am one who thrives on being restrained.  My happiest times are when being placed in to bondage, whether it be on a bondage wheel, a St Andrews Cross or even as simple as a set of handcuffs and a headboard.  I have practiced self bondage but have never manged to replicate the feeling of helplessness.  I have tied my legs to a chair and arms behind my back but with a loose know I knew I could escape.  Did I like it?  Yes.  Did I get the same buzz as when I was tied tightly on a cross?  No.

A google search suggests ice cubes and padlocks that can provide temporary incarceration, but does this lack the psychological element?  Perhaps technology can offer a solution in time?  The sex industry is always quick to embrace technological advances after all.  Photography – porn.  The telephone – sex lines.  Video – porn.  Internet – everything!

For me the true thrill of bondage comes from the interaction.  Each buckle fastened is another step toward the loss of freedom.  Each padlock secured a step toward helplessness.  Self bondage will always have an appeal, a scratch of an itch rather than a satisfying dig with the nails.  That is unless you can get yourself in to the same position as Shinyaline and have a rescuer on hand.

About More Than Whips and Chains

After mulling it over for many moons I am finally writing a chronicle of my journey in to submission.  From my doe eyed times as an eighteen year old exploring the unusual world of BDSM to the present day twenty years on looking at the wonderful array of experiences that I have passed, and also what lies ahead.

More Than Whips and Chains will be published as an ebook in early 2017.  If all goes to plan it will be well received and demand will allow a hard copy to be published.

Kinkycamdom have been lucky enough to work with this amazing up and coming writer and have a sneaky peak at his work. We are very excited for his first release this year, a deep and emotional journey from the heart of a true submissive, and hopefully some more guest blogs on Kinky 🙂

Please follow and support this budding writer.

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